Usually, when I'm riding by myself, I am just riding in silence thinking about what is the next thing I need to accomplish for the day or swearing at someone to get out of the way because they don't know how to drive, but every now and then I like to turn on some music and bob my head and just vibe out.
So when I turned on the radio, the first song I heard was "I'll Beat The Pussy up" by Loverance. The next song was "Make it Nasty" by Tyga and the third song before I decided to change the station was "Drank in My Cup" by Kirko Bangz.
Now I've heard these songs plenty of times and I'm not knocking these artists for what they say or do but for some reason today it made me think; what has happen to mainstream urban music that talks about love, relationships or actually romancing a woman instead of just "beating it up" and having sex?
I can't even front, when I was these young men's age and "sowing my wild oats," I wasn't thinking about love or romancing a woman either, so it may just be a maturity thing and in time as I have, they will mature. But let's be honest here, though most women like to be romanced, not all women want to be romanced all the time. At times they like to get "down and dirty" just like men and I get that, so to each its own.
But I was raised old school and sometimes I would like to hear more of these New Generation artists be more creative and rap or sing about love and real relationships. What happen to songs like "I Got So Much To Give" by Barry White, "Honey Love" by R.Kelly, and "Beauty" by Dru Hill? Today romance is missing from urban music and there are less and less love songs being played on mainstream radio and it's a problem. Love songs are good for the soul, the subconscious mind and in the right setting, can really turn a woman on.
I understand that times are different and the goals of artists/record labels are to sell records. But is the problem that major record labels do not think "Love Songs" will sell anymore or is it that young artists and the new generation really have no clue what true love or romancing is?
All I'm really saying is that there needs to be a better mixture of what Hip-Hop and R&B artists are putting out to be heard and what is being played on mainstream urban radio. There are still people in the world that want to be put in a mellow mood or make love during a quiet storm.
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